What are 6 adjectives which best describe you? These can be from outside the list. Think about the evidence or your past experiences that support their accuracy.
1)Considerate - My friend organised a chalet to celebrate her birthday and i was invited. However, almost all of us cannot stay over at her chalet because our parents do not allow and she started criticising us on her blog. All of them were so mad at her that they decided not to go for her party except me and the other girl. I told them to go because it’s her birthday and we should give her face. And so all my friends said i’m simply too considerate of how others will feel.
2)Stubborn –I will try all means to get what i want if not i will be super angry and my friends did experienced it.
3)Trustworthy –I never failed to help my friends keep secrets and thats why they always confide in me whenever they got problems, be it happy or unhappy.
4)Temperamental –Sometimes when i go to school early in the morning, i will pull a long face and just ignore my friends and they get really piss with me.
5)Serious –When it comes to project work and dateline is drawing near, i will get really serious. If my friends still do not get down to work i will walk off to cool myself down.
6)Ambitious –I had always wanted to lead a luxury life in the future, now i’m studying hard to get a diploma to secure myself with a job in future and to get all my branded goods!
From the list of adjectives that you scored 3, identify the ones which you best like about yourself. Why are they important to you?
1) Tolerant –I can be very tolerant to my friends and family members, unless things really go out of hands than i will explore. It’s important to me because i will not vent my anger on others easily and this will mean less quarrelling with friends and family members. Also it helps to control my own emotions better.
2) Thoughtful –I will always put my friends’ feelings above myself. I try not to make them feel lousy and whenever they say nasty things about my friends and i will just let it go. My friends warned me not to be so nice to others because u will never know what they will do behind your back. I think it’s important for us to be thoughtful to others, if everyone was to careful of one another there will never be true friends around.
3) Trustworthy –It’s important to gain the trust of others because next time when we encounter any problems, they will be there for you and trust whatever u say and never doubt. Most importantly when you are being wrongly accuse by someone, you will hope someone will be there to trust you and give you their full support.
From the list of adjectives that you scored 0, write down the ones you would like to improve. How are you going to develop these characteristics?
1) Articulate –I hope to improve on this and try to be more confident when speaking in front of the crowd. I will try to speak more in front of my friends and hopefully it will help me.
Reflections:
Public Self:
This is what I share with others about me:
I’m just a very simple girl, likes to make new friends and go shopping. I’m friendly and easy to approach. :)
Private Self:
Think about how much of your private self you are willing to share. What are the benefits or drawbacks to sharing aspects of your private self?
I’m willing to share my private self only to my close friends. Personally i trust people easily and i get hurt in the end. From then on, i choose carefully who i can share and who i cannot share with. Benefits of sharing your personal allows others to know you better and it helps one to feel better after telling what’s on their mind. Not forgetting about the negative side, if that person knows everything about you and they will seize the opportunity to backstab or make use of your weak point and threaten you.
Blind Spot:
What are some of things that you’ve learnt about yourself from others that cause you to wonder or to see yourself differently?
Friends told me that i’m too shy and seldom will take the initiative to approach someone, i realised it only after they told me. They said i’m too soft-hearted and will get bullied by others easily. They also said that i should not have been so considerate towards other people’s feelings and neglecting my own feelings.
What are some of the limiting beliefs that you hold? Take a few minutes to reflect on the impact it has on your self-esteem, your relationships, and actions.
1) I have to be pretty in order to be attractive.
2) I have to be smart for people to be friends with me.
3) I need to have a good sense of dressing in order not to be laugh at.
My 5 Years Plan
At the age of 21, hopefully I can get my diploma in business studies.
Beginning of age 22, I want to get my driving license and a full time job as a banker.
At the age 23, save enough money and travel overseas with my friends and hopefully I get my parents’ consent.
At the end of 24, I dearly wish that my relationship is still working out well and the both of us shall continue to work hard and save enough money for our future.
By end of 25, I wish to get engage with the one I love and together we will work hard and build our future hand in hand. :) 
1)Considerate - My friend organised a chalet to celebrate her birthday and i was invited. However, almost all of us cannot stay over at her chalet because our parents do not allow and she started criticising us on her blog. All of them were so mad at her that they decided not to go for her party except me and the other girl. I told them to go because it’s her birthday and we should give her face. And so all my friends said i’m simply too considerate of how others will feel.
2)Stubborn –I will try all means to get what i want if not i will be super angry and my friends did experienced it.
3)Trustworthy –I never failed to help my friends keep secrets and thats why they always confide in me whenever they got problems, be it happy or unhappy.
4)Temperamental –Sometimes when i go to school early in the morning, i will pull a long face and just ignore my friends and they get really piss with me.
5)Serious –When it comes to project work and dateline is drawing near, i will get really serious. If my friends still do not get down to work i will walk off to cool myself down.
6)Ambitious –I had always wanted to lead a luxury life in the future, now i’m studying hard to get a diploma to secure myself with a job in future and to get all my branded goods!
From the list of adjectives that you scored 3, identify the ones which you best like about yourself. Why are they important to you?
1) Tolerant –I can be very tolerant to my friends and family members, unless things really go out of hands than i will explore. It’s important to me because i will not vent my anger on others easily and this will mean less quarrelling with friends and family members. Also it helps to control my own emotions better.
2) Thoughtful –I will always put my friends’ feelings above myself. I try not to make them feel lousy and whenever they say nasty things about my friends and i will just let it go. My friends warned me not to be so nice to others because u will never know what they will do behind your back. I think it’s important for us to be thoughtful to others, if everyone was to careful of one another there will never be true friends around.
3) Trustworthy –It’s important to gain the trust of others because next time when we encounter any problems, they will be there for you and trust whatever u say and never doubt. Most importantly when you are being wrongly accuse by someone, you will hope someone will be there to trust you and give you their full support.
From the list of adjectives that you scored 0, write down the ones you would like to improve. How are you going to develop these characteristics?
1) Articulate –I hope to improve on this and try to be more confident when speaking in front of the crowd. I will try to speak more in front of my friends and hopefully it will help me.
Reflections:
Public Self:
This is what I share with others about me:
I’m just a very simple girl, likes to make new friends and go shopping. I’m friendly and easy to approach. :)
Private Self:
Think about how much of your private self you are willing to share. What are the benefits or drawbacks to sharing aspects of your private self?
I’m willing to share my private self only to my close friends. Personally i trust people easily and i get hurt in the end. From then on, i choose carefully who i can share and who i cannot share with. Benefits of sharing your personal allows others to know you better and it helps one to feel better after telling what’s on their mind. Not forgetting about the negative side, if that person knows everything about you and they will seize the opportunity to backstab or make use of your weak point and threaten you.
Blind Spot:
What are some of things that you’ve learnt about yourself from others that cause you to wonder or to see yourself differently?
Friends told me that i’m too shy and seldom will take the initiative to approach someone, i realised it only after they told me. They said i’m too soft-hearted and will get bullied by others easily. They also said that i should not have been so considerate towards other people’s feelings and neglecting my own feelings.
What are some of the limiting beliefs that you hold? Take a few minutes to reflect on the impact it has on your self-esteem, your relationships, and actions.
1) I have to be pretty in order to be attractive.
2) I have to be smart for people to be friends with me.
3) I need to have a good sense of dressing in order not to be laugh at.
My 5 Years Plan
At the age of 21, hopefully I can get my diploma in business studies.
Beginning of age 22, I want to get my driving license and a full time job as a banker.
At the age 23, save enough money and travel overseas with my friends and hopefully I get my parents’ consent.
At the end of 24, I dearly wish that my relationship is still working out well and the both of us shall continue to work hard and save enough money for our future.
By end of 25, I wish to get engage with the one I love and together we will work hard and build our future hand in hand. :)
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